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Why You Keep Second-Guessing Your Intuition—Even When You’re Usually Right

June 18, 2022

9 Stages of

Spiritual Awakening


Have you ever had a feeling about something, ignored it…And then later thought: I knew it?

Most intuitive people have. The strange part is that even when this happens repeatedly, we still second-guess ourselves the next time.

Why?

Because receiving Guidance and trusting Guidance are two very different things.

You can be highly intuitive and still doubt yourself constantly. In fact, I see this all the time. A woman receives something clearly. She knows. Then almost immediately, the mind begins:

What if I’m wrong?

Maybe I’m imagining it.

Maybe I’m being dramatic.

Maybe I should ask someone else.

And just like that, the original knowing gets buried under overthinking.

There are a lot of reasons we do this. Most of us were never taught to trust subtle information.

We were taught to value what we could prove. What was logical. What other people agreed with.

What had evidence.

And, let's face it, intuition rarely arrives that way!

It may come before there is any proof of truth whatsoever. And for most of us that can feel uncomfortable.

Especially if you’ve spent your life being careful, responsible, practical, or concerned about getting things “right.” (hmmm, sound like someone you know?)

There is also something else happening. Trusting our intuition requires risk. If you really listen to your intuition, sometimes you have to act before everyone else understands.

You may have to say no, or you choose differently from the crowd. A sudden change in direction can feel vulnerable.

So instead of trusting the intuition or message, we keep collecting information/evidence or proof.

Another opinion. Another reading. Another sign. Another confirmation.

At some point, though, more confirmation doesn’t create trust. Experience does.

You receive. You record . You observe.

You notice what happens. You learn.

And gradually, your own intuitive pattern becomes visible. You start to realize: My first impression is usually right, or better yet, this is what fear (ego) sounds like and this is what Guidance feels like.

That is how intuitive confidence is built. Not by never doubting again. But by recovering from doubt faster.

That is a huge difference.

The goal is not to become someone who never questions anything. The goal is to become someone who knows how to return to what she received, and trust that is is the best answer or solution for her .

So the next time you catch yourself douibting or spiraling, ask:

What did I know, feel, hear before I started questioning it?

Very often, that is where your real answer began.

in Love and light,

Connie🌹🕊️


A spiritual awakening is a profound initiation, often sudden and unexpected, where we awaken to previously hidden or unknown aspects of our life, world, and universe. Most people live in a kind of amnesia, believing the world is entirely physical and governed solely by matter, with no spiritual side at all.

A spiritual awakening occurs when the mind opens and becomes aware of something "more" beyond the mundane. This awakening typically sparks a quest for learning, leading to a ravenous need to read and explore spiritual and metaphysical subjects. This journey is nearly always pleasant and rewarding, with many avenues to explore and teachers to learn from.

The topic of spiritual awakening is broad, so let's break it down into the various stages one goes through on this journey of the soul. These stages can also serve as signs that you are experiencing an awakening.

  1. The Wake-Up Call

A sudden realization that there is more to life than the physical world. This can be triggered by a significant life event, a personal crisis, or a moment of clarity.

  1. The Search for Meaning

An intense curiosity about the nature of reality and a desire to understand spiritual concepts. This stage often involves reading books, attending workshops, and exploring different spiritual traditions.

  1. Self-Discovery

A period of introspection where you begin to uncover your true self, stripping away societal conditioning and false beliefs. This stage can be both exhilarating and challenging as you confront your inner truths.

  1. The Dark Night of the Soul

A phase of deep inner turmoil and confusion, where old beliefs and identities crumble. This can feel like a spiritual or existential crisis but is a necessary part of the awakening process.

  1. Integration

Starting to integrate new insights and wisdom into your daily life. You begin to live more authentically, aligning your actions with your spiritual values.

  1. Synchronicity and Guidance

Experiencing meaningful coincidences and feeling guided by a higher power. You become more attuned to the signs and messages from the universe.

  1. Connection to All

A deep sense of interconnectedness with all life. You feel a strong bond with nature, other people, and the cosmos, understanding that everything is part of a greater whole.

  1. Living Your Purpose

Feeling a strong sense of purpose and direction in your life. You start to contribute to the world in meaningful ways, using your unique talents and gifts.

  1. Enlightenment

Achieving a state of inner peace, wisdom, and compassion. You live in harmony with yourself and the universe, fully awakened to your true nature.

Conclusion

These stages are not always linear and can be experienced in different orders or revisited multiple times. Spiritual awakening is a deeply personal journey, unique to each individual. Recognizing these stages can help you understand where you are on your path and provide reassurance that you are not alone in your experiences. Embrace the journey and allow yourself to grow and evolve spiritually.

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